What the intake actually asks
This is not a quiz. The intake is the ceremony the Map begins with — 122 questions for the Masculine Map, 119 for the Feminine Map, across 17 sections. About 90 minutes, alone, in your own language. Below is a selection of eight questions, taken verbatim from the live form.
1. In 2–3 sentences, describe your relationship with your father right now.
Not a biography — just the current state. What is alive between you, or what has been left unsaid?
2. On a scale of 1–10, how much do you feel your father's blessing for the life you are living?
Not his approval — his backing. Whether you feel he supports the life you are actually building.
3. What did you close off in yourself to stay safe with her?
4. Before your father became your father — what marked his own first 18 years? (Select all that apply)
Loss. Poverty. War. Violence. Parentification. Migration. Things he never spoke about.
5. What is the specific skill or way of being you learned in childhood that made you useful to the family then — but is quietly costing you now?
6. What is the one “mess” in your life that you are waiting to miraculously change without you doing the work to clean it up?
7. What is the main recurring tension in this relationship?
8. When you look at the marriage or relationship between your parents, what is the one dynamic you catch yourself repeating (or actively rebelling against) with your own partner?
If these questions land — you are who this is for.
If they don't, the Map is probably not the right starting point for you.
Plan around 90 minutes, alone, in a quiet space.
These questions appear in both the Masculine Map and the Feminine Map — the framing adjusts to gender, but the depth is the same.